I couple of years ago I wrote a blog post about why boys need dolls. I recently received a letter by a customer which confirmed my belief. I am convinced that all boys should have a doll to play with in their early childhood years.
Here is an excerpt from the letter I received:
"...If I could adequately express how much BOTH dolls were appreciated, not just by my son, but by my husband and I, I would. The first doll, who we ordered before we were expecting any children with the intention of giving her to our first child, ended up serving a very special purpose. Our first pregnancy, sadly, ended in a miscarriage. When we returned from the hospital, we put away all the baby things but kept your doll out. Having her near helped me to heal and keep a positive outlook during this hard time.
So not only have your dolls been wonderful for children, but at least two adults- my husband and I- have also found them to be a great comfort. Your work is immensely meaningful.
Our son has just come back from buying bread with his Daddy- and of course, Baby went with them. He woke up this morning and kissed her before making her pretend to kiss me. She is bringing out his kind, gentle nature. I think more little boys should be given dolls to love at such an early age. "
Receiving this letter made me cry. Yes, all boys need dolls. Maybe even the grown-up ones - at times... I love making dolls but the there is no better reward than receiving such a letter with cute pictures attached like the ones above...
That is so sweet and heart warming. Thanks so much for sharing Ulla. ^_^
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Elfie
Such a lovely post Ulla!
ReplyDeleteThe days we get such lovely letters are the days we dollmakers live for, right girls?
ReplyDeleteThis is a beautiful post and so true. Our 5 year old son loves his doll (named Milky-drinker) and plays with her often. It balances out his rough play which has lately turned toward a focus on weapons (much to my dismay!). I just found your etsy shop this weekend while looking for doll clothes. Then I came upon you again yesterday when I discovered natural kids blog through a friend. Funny how things work that way sometimes. Beautiful blog, shop, and mostly dolls!
ReplyDeleteI truly believe in dolls for boys and girls...we need to encourage that loving,nurturing nature inherent in ALL of us...When i was working in daycare, i used to read a book to the children called "William's Doll" by Charlotte Zolotow ...It is a lovely story about a boy who wants a doll to care for, and the uphill climb he faces in getting his wish...
ReplyDeleteI like that name, Milky-drinker! That's so sweet.
ReplyDeleteMy 12 year old son still brings out the doll I made him once in a while...This summer he crocheted her a blanket. I think he'll be a great dad some day!
Mare, I remember that book. I read it a long time ago. I must go find it at the library once again!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this story. My sons have dolls and I too see their nurturing nature come out!
ReplyDeleteMy son still loves the doll I made him when he was little. He is 12 now!
ReplyDeleteI have bought a few doll dresses from you over the past few years, and I just recently bought some mermaid outfits! Anyway, I just happened upon your blog today. I had, amazingly enough, just read your original post about boys and dolls. I found it when I was searching for 'boy waldorf doll' on google! I couldn't agree with you more, and although it isn't one of yours, our 16 month old son is getting a boy waldorf doll for Christmas this year. Thanks for the beautiful work that you do!
ReplyDelete-Liz